Four sessions held in December 2013

This package includes recordings of all four sessions held in December 2013.

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2013-12-02

Mini sessions in Sebastopol

2013-12-04

Before this meeting, I was reviewing the Morning Messages and found a list I had created back in August 2013 listing some of the things that I have learned from Eloheim. Eloheim asked me to print the list and take it to the meeting. They used the list to do a year end “Compare you-to-you” review! Here is the list:

• Neutral observation of “what is true now”
• Embracing that what is, IS
• Willingness to be vulnerable
• Choosing to follow what feels juicy and fascinating
• Abiding in the discomfort of “understanding is overrated” and “I don’t know anything”
• Seeking clarity and setting aside my addiction to certainty
• Mentally staying on the step I am on
• Not limiting myself through pre-conceived notions
• Relaxing my relationship to time
• Telling fear to take a hike unless it has something new to add
• Maximizing access to possibilities by dropping my fixation on specific outcomes

Guardians/Visionaries: At the end of the calendar year, you can feel unbalanced. We like that because you’re not so rooted and it’s easier for us to push you. And being uncomfortable does not mean there is danger. Your external surroundings don’t dictate who you are. Even when you are in uncertainty, you can feel balanced, in the real sense.

Eloheim: Let’s do a you-to-you comparison at the end of this year, to see where you stand. Find out what brings up static in you and choose to have a different relationship to it. That’s the key thing right now, because less static = more Homo spiritus.

Neutral observation of “what is true now”: This will solve most of your problems if it is done as authentically as possible. It’s choosing not to be in preconceived notions or judgments. Humans are programed to go to “I suck” but – instead – choose to come back to neutral observation.

Embracing that what is, IS: “I create my reality” is not about having a magic wand (and then going into “I suck” when things don’t happen). It’s about making choices in the now; choosing your reaction to your experiences. What is, IS. Confront it with neutral observation.

Willingness to be vulnerable: “I am willing. I have free will and vulnerability is what I want to experience”. If it’s difficult, just acknowledge that you are willing.

Choosing to follow what feels juicy and fascinating: rather than focusing on habits, on your thoughts, and traditional concerns. Choosing “juicy and fascinating” allows you to be in uncertainty.

Abiding in the discomfort of “understanding is overrated” and “I don’t know anything”: Your brain cannot give you the full story and it keeps you in limitation. You can’t think your way out of this. Surrender the idea that your mind can give you the answers. You are in uncharted territory, but you don’t have to think about it. When you’re in a fog, say “Perfect; I’m in a brand new place.” It’s not danger.

Seeking clarity and setting aside my addiction to certainty: Clarity is in the moment and that’s all you get. Certainty is not real; it’s a false “out there.” Clarity is right here. It’s not planning, protecting or remembering.

Mentally staying on the step I am on: The future, the 50th step, is fake. If you mentally stay there, you don’t truly get anything done and you become stuck in “it’s unavailable.” If you imagine the 50th step on the top of a long staircase, if you focus up there, then the staircase disappears. The only thing that works is step by step. What step am I on? What step can I be on?”

Not limiting myself through pre-conceived notions: Just be aware that they have such a pull on you. Choose clarity on a crooked road. You are here because you want to take the human experience to a different place – into evolution/ascension. We’re giving you a well-rounded opportunity to move into a ripened place.

Relaxing my relationship to time: Have a flexible relationship to time. Homo sapiens have a rigid relationship to time in order to feel safe and certain. Homo spiritus has a more natural (non –clock) relation to time. Not having a life driven by the clock, but being in clarity in the moment, can stretch time. If it seems your clock has stopped, it means that your experience of the clock has changed. If you’re not attached to it dictating to you what you have to do (as an authority figure), you view time from a different vista point.

Telling fear to take a hike unless it has something new to add
: Fear is a friend when it is correctly applied, when it has something new to add. But if it has nothing new, even if the fear is legitimate, put it on the shelf.

Maximizing access to possibilities by dropping my fixation on specific outcomes: As if there was one outcome! Nothing else in your life is a “one.” Everything else is infinite. Go look at the stars or a blade of grass. Say: “I’m going to stay open, because I don’t know” and stay in clarity. Everything IS there, but humans generate static between themselves and possibilities. Homo Spiritus stops making static, and just explores.

2013-12-11

This was a powerful session. Each Council member spoke about what they wish for us for 2014.

Guardians: The new year is a good time to take inventory. What will you carry into 2014, and what do you intend to leave behind? It’s OK to be uncertain about what comes next, or even about what ‘now’ is. What needs to be avoided is filling uncertainty with habits and familiar suffering. Experience what IS when those things aren’t there.

Visionaries: 2014 will be an incline year – a year where you feel the change, as you work through your issues. “I want to see things happen. I want to walk upwards. I want to see and feel transformation occurring”. As on a treadmill, you want some resistance so that you have evolution. Seek new things and abide in the discomfort of change. See what IS right now, then choose your reaction. 2014 will have upheavals but don’t fixate on the negative things happening. You can at least be neutral. Positive things need to be counted as well. Factor in the love, the happiness and the good things! In 2014, the goal of the Council is for you to feel “Oh, I’m uncertain” and be untriggered by it. That will give us permission to explore the fractal nature of the moment, and how much more there is. But it has to start from your being in level 6 (‘what trigger?’) about general uncertainty. If you can stay in level 6 about uncertainty more often than not, we will have that open space to explore. Watch where you are in the levels. Homework: See what your relationship to uncertainty is – and how it evolves over the next three weeks. You can use the notebook tool to mine your reactions.

Eloheim: Try to experience uncertainty as a very good place to start – rather than a dangerous, polarized, closed state. Say: “I am uncertain,…and willing, and open to the new, and experiencing transformation.” Saying “I’m uncertain and confused” is better than being stopped by the survival instinct. When you are confronted with stuff, remember the levels. “I’m being a victim right now. Can I go up to the next level?” Give up being afraid of uncertainty and OWN it.

In 2014, we want to help you feel more comfortable in your body. Our clients tend to be very mental, so we’ve worked with your brains in order to make changes in you. But we want you to be more comfortable in your bodies and the launching point for that is uncertainty. Your body has to stop fighting the truth of you. If you have a trigger or confusion and react in resistance (“It shouldn’t be this way”), then the body tenses. Notice how often your body contracts in response to triggers, and consciously choose your reaction. Choose to stay mostly in relaxation, and just slightly contract now and then. When uncertain or triggered, you either go into victimhood or “this trigger is mine.” Understand that you’re going to be uncomfortable either way – but the old way (victimhood) is also unpalatable and closed. Whereas, “this trigger is mine” is an open vista of infinite possibilities.

Fred: When you skip a stone across the water, eventually it will sink – and, unlike the short skips, it goes downwards for a long time. The water gets murky, then muddy, and then the stone is down deep in the mud. In 2014, that dropping part is what we want to do with you. When you sink down into the mud, there is more richness, more surface area, more texture of possibilities, more opportunities and interesting things. When you sink down into the mud, all of the sudden, there are choices! We want possibilities to become choices for you. HOW to make choices out of the possibilities is what we will help you with.

Girls: In 2014, our wish for you is to have tenderness towards self. Choose the tender way – of talking to yourself, of evaluating your life, of being in uncertainty, in making choices, experiences, etc. If you have fear and think it is unchangeable, beating your head against it only creates more fear. Instead, offer your fears the tenderness you wish they were giving you. Let tenderness be part of all of your experiences. That’s the life you give yourself: the gift of tenderness as you attend to what is.

Warrior: There’s snow outside and the pigs are IN the house…and all the grandkids and all the wives. The neighbors leave us alone now. It takes a lot of fierceness, attention and boundary-setting before you have peace. It’s being willing to say, ‘that’s enough’ and stand behind it. And now we ease into a time when our work rewards us, when we give a different gift to our family, when we love in a different way. We’re in a middle place; a transition into an awareness of a new skill set. The discomfort of uncertainty becomes a new skill set. And we will do it together.

Matriarch: Choosing your reactions to your experience contributes to the vibration on your planet. Like a lighthouse, your consciousness offers a light out of victimhood. That’s the way to change the world; that’s the opportunity. Go and offer that. Give it to yourself, and then you’ll gift it to others.

2013-12-15

We had an amazing Q&A to close out the 2013 channeling sessions. We hold a Q&A on the 3rd Sunday of each month. Join us to ask your question. Learn more here.

David asked:
My question is regarding ambivalence about a potential girlfriend. Specifically what spiritual level does “ambivalence” fall in? It does not seem to fall in any of the spiritual levels, unless it is a mild form of duality. I also wonder if it could be associated energy blockage. Last year I thought that a girlfriend might be a good idea. Now, I have changed my mind for lots of good reasons. I am not currently looking for a girlfriend, but if one shows up under the right conditions, I might change my mind. However, since I have so many conditions, I suspect that the probability is low. I do not spend much time thinking about it, but it does pop up once in a while. Perhaps there are other choices that I can’t see. Eloheim, can you suggest another way of looking at this?

Saira and Birgit both asked:
I would be very grateful for anything you have to share about my energy, especially if there is something I am not seeing.

Denise asked:
I’m fatigued from the way I have been weighing and reweighing my plans to make spiritual changes, that may include a physical move, to be closer to community, friends and family. I’d love to see how you’d make this move. And Hey Eloheim, what about infinite possibilities?

Mark asked:
This week on Facebook prayers were asked for someone who attended the last retreat. It got me thinking.
I see prayers reinforcing or wanting to change whatever level of consciousness I am on. When I pray, is my personality talking with my soul – another person’s soul if I am praying for someone else – or ….

Nancy asked:
I don’t have a question, I’m looking at what’s in my lap and understand this is my choice and my journey. Please look at my energy now and see if I’m am staying the course.

Mellie asked:
With a history of being paid far less than my skill, experience and reviews warrant, I found out that yet ANOTHER junior person was making 20k more than I, while I was literally scraping coins out of my car for groceries. I’ve recently accepted a new job in my dream location for even less money than my last job, so I seem to be going in reverse. Why am I being chronically unseen, unvalued and unappreciated when I know how kick-ass I really am and when my preferences are strong? And how can I be so drawn to yet another step backwards? How do I get out of this cycle of attracting people and/or being attracted/fascinated by opportunities that either actually can’t or simply refuse to pay me what I need, want, and deserve.

Dorothy asked:
I had a totally different question written up earlier today, and then three hours ago I got a message from my Panama partners. We have been waiting unsuccessfully for an email answer for over two weeks from the owner of the B&B in Panama. Last month he offered us an opportunity on his own to do a rent to own of the B&B, said he wanted us to have it. Now he seems to be not replying to our questions. Today my friends are saying about his non-responses, Oh maybe this isn’t the right time or the right place. One said she has had the feeling all along that it would be February before we could move.
I’m saying, what?? You want to put this off again?? Needless to say, I am so not happy with this talk. I’m stunned. I thought we were all on board for a January departure date. I planned to give notice at work this week. I am ready to go. This leaves me feeling like I’m sitting on a huge pile of uncertainty and kind of let down. I am not abiding in the discomfort of this uncertainty very well at all!! In fact, I am angry to be honest. I feel so drawn there, so why has this been such a struggle to get there? I need some clarity, please.

Four sessions held in December 2013

This package includes recordings of all four sessions held in December 2013.

No need to download! Watch or listen ON DEMAND right on our website!